Creating Yourself!


Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. ~ George Bernard Shaw

Where did 2015 go?????? It’s been a very busy and amazing year of accomplishments!
Family and friends have overcome health issues and some are exploring new options in life. For some, it might even be described as “rearranging” your life and that involves taking risks and trying on new hats. Discovering inner strength and talents and not being afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Saying “YES” for a change. Have you done this or know someone who is currently doing this? Maybe it will be something to explore in the new year. May your hopes and dreams receive the attention they deserve!

Sending lots of good wishes to all for a safe and blessed holiday and a Happy 2016!!!
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Much Happiness,


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Safe Travels



“One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things.” ~ Henry Miller

As the season progresses, so many events are happening and that also includes more travel than usual.  Weather is also a factor and it’s always a wise move to think about safety as we make our plans.  Storms are all around the Mid-West as I write this post today.  Paying attention and being prepared are repeated suggestions on the news as they continue to broadcast warnings of threatening weather.  

The idea of paying attention and being prepared also applies to life in general.  Are there storms of drama around you?  Are winds of change threatening your happiness?  Do you need to protect yourself from issues beyond your control?  Should you spend your time and attention on your own new projects and goals that you have put on hold?   What no longer seems to fit ? Maybe there is a need to create some space in order to make room for something new.  

All we have to do is take some personal time to evaluate desires for the future and at least start with some new thoughts and ideas.  Change doesn’t have to happen all at once.  Being prepared could mean focusing on what matters most and what you would like to experience.  At least, travel in your mind and try to see things in a new way.  Try paying  attention to your thoughts and prepare yourself for your own best future that you are helping to design.  Some choices are in your control and that begins in your own heart and mind.

Blessings and Safe Travels!


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“The possibilities are numerous once we decide to act and not react.” ~ George Bernard Shaw  

I love that quote!  So many people face challenging situations.  Some of them will take on the role of a victim, while others will set new goals and take action toward the possibilities in front of them.  Those are the people that inspire me the most.  They take the proverbial “lemons” and make lemonade.  As cliche as it may sound, these are the people that will not only overcome their personal challenges, but will often thrive in spite of the obstacles they face.

One recent example is Boston Marathon survivor, 33-year-old Adrianne Haslet-Davis. Dancing was a big part of her life, but she lost her lower left leg on that tragic day in Boston.  She was determined to dance again and inspire others to reach for their goals and be proactive in their own lives.  In almost a year, she was able to take the stage at a conference in Vancouver wearing a prosthetic leg “fit for dancing.” 

If people like Adrianne can move forward, we can all get motivated to some degree to take action and “design our lives” without waiting for something or someone else to do what needs to be done.  It might be a very small action at first, but it still has the power to move us in the right direction.  All I want to share is the idea of making a conscious effort to realize personal goals to any degree that it can be a vision in the mind.  All we have to do as individuals is think of the “possibilities” and go from there!  Happy Spring!!




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One Word 365

I recently saw a Bulger’s Beat feature segment on WSMV here in Nashville.  Alece Ronzino has an interesting website to help people focus on one guiding word for the year, instead of trying to make their New Year’s resolutions actually happen!

I like the concept, so I am passing along the information to others in the “More Blessed Than Stressed” blog.  As you can see, I have selected my own word for this year and decided to make a visual of it to keep reminding myself each day.  The One Word 365 website offers suggestions about how to select a word, plus ways to stay connected with others.  It didn’t take me long to come up with a word that felt inspiring to me and I decided on the word “MOVE”.  I want to keep feeling a sense of action and forward progress in many aspects of my life this year, so that word seemed to be the strongest in my mind.  I allowed a few words to go through my mind, but that one really stuck with me.  

You might want explore the idea and try to find your own word for the year, plus share the concept with friends and family.  We all need inspiration and I think I was supposed to see that story, then share it with others.  Check out this link for more information:

Enjoy and have a blessed and happy 2014!!

Blessings, Kaye

“I know nothing in the world that has a much power as a word.  Sometimes I write one, and I look at it, until it begins to shine.” ~ Emily Dickinson










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Raw Talent

“Every artist was first an amateur.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

I recently had the pleasure of hearing young performers on stage and observed some amazing talent.  In our fast paced world of competition that flaunts adult makeup on toddlers with tiaras, it’s refreshing to see raw talent being showcased in a casual setting.  I did, however, make a few observations about human nature.  You can tell when someone younger has already had their “natural” gifts manipulated by well meaning adults.  The training is meant to improve and sharpen skills, but sometimes the “edge” is just too sharp and it’s hard to see what is really under all the “grooming” that has taken place.  In contrast, now and then there is a “diamond in the rough” that shines through all the man-made glitter.  Talent that is unassuming, authentic and giving.  Sometimes you can actually observe someone using their gift and working to develop it without  any agenda other than to make it better as they go along.  I heard someone remark that one performer had a presence about them that felt like they weren’t trying to get the audience to love them, but instead they were giving love to the audience.  That comment really stuck with me and seemed to represent the difference in raw talent verses manufactured performance.  It also represents life in general.  What are we trying to gain and what are we actually trying to give?  It’s human nature to be creative and we all find ways to express ourselves.  The pure joy of doing that and expanding our level of expression is what being an artist is really all about.  Everyone has God given talent to use to some degree that inspires them and gives them fulfillment.  My wish for all individuals is to search and discover your own raw talent, then allow the time to develop and express it at your own pace, so you can evolve and be true to yourself.  Other well meaning folks can’t figure it out for you, so listen and learn, then take what you need and keep moving ahead in the direction of your goal.  God speed.                                                                                                                                                                                                         

“When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, ‘I used everything you gave me’. ” ~ Erma Bombeck                                            

Blessings, Kaye                                                                            












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Butterflies stop to absorb energy from the sun.  Likewise, I find myself stopping to rest and renew my own energy now and then.  The whole concept of energy applies to so many aspects of life.  The energy waiting to come through a light switch is directed when you turn it on or off.  The same goes for personal energy that is waiting to be directed by the actions we take.

In a recent article by Jesse Jennings, he mentions that thoughts surround feeling to form beliefs, beliefs inform words and actions, and we stay informed with this process as it happens from the inside out.  Everything is laid out for us in potential, and that becomes the clay we shape into the qualities of experience that we prefer.  

Daily life is directed by schedules, appointments and routine habits that we have decided to experience, but there is also “free time” to make use of for ourselves and others.  How do you spend your time and energy?  What choices did you make to experience the life you are now living?  What will be the next choices that you make?

 I personally strive to live an artistic and creative life in general and I enjoy “free time” by following my instincts to just enjoy the moments however I decide.  I have made the choice to “design my life” in a way that allows me the freedom to be spontaneous.  I still work and keep schedules, but their is less stress because I have unscheduled time, too.  Whatever works, right?  It sure helps keep the good energy flowing and makes for a healthier lifestyle. Everyone has to find the right balance that works for them.  So, take a moment and plan to do something nice for yourself that will renew your “energy.”  

“Opportunity is everywhere; give it life by your actions.”  Sister Jennie Lehtenberg  

Blessings, Kaye

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Feed the Dog

“A Native American elder once described his own inner struggles in this manner: Inside of me there are two dogs. One of the dogs is mean and evil. The other dog is good. The mean dog fights the good dog all the time. When asked which dog wins, he reflected for a moment and replied, The one I feed the most.”  ~ George Bernard Shaw

I recently heard this quote used in the dialogue for a commercial about a new TV drama series and looked it up on the Internet.  I guess I had heard it before, but didn’t realize it came from and Indian elder.  If you’ve never heard this quote, it might be worth thinking about.

I’ve noticed for a long time that there are many negative news reports and media headlines aimed at “fear.”  I’ve also heard many others agree that we are over-exposed to negative news.  Of course, most people can see through the media hype and feeding frenzy that goes along with the latest scandal or tragic loss.  I admit that my ears perk up when I hear dramatic news, but sometimes it just gets to be too much.  What are they putting in the food that causes the BIG NEGATIVE dogs to get everything?

When I think of dogs, I think of their unconditional nature and how they seem to “fit in” with their surroundings.  I also think about how they live in the moment and seem to follow their instincts.  Words like playful, loving and companion come to mind.  And what about the the rescue dogs, seeing eye dogs and visitation dogs that help the sick and elderly feel better just being in the room next to them?  Does anyone take time to feed the dogs that make the world a better place to live? 

So, there’s good & bad fighting it out…wanting to be fed.  Which one do I feed?  I think I’ll have to take a “commercial break”  and meditate on that one.

“Sometimes I wonder if the semi-conscious agenda of the media is to get between people and their souls. It is the the soul with its myriad tiny nerve endings that notices the neglected pathos, poignancy and practicality that lies at the heart of life. It’s as if the media are somehow irritated and envious that anonymous people should have the quiet brilliance of their rich and sustainable inner lives…” ~ Michael Leunig                  

Blessings, Kaye




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Choice, Travel, Design

I have been traveling the first part of the new year and it’s fun to stay busy!  Hope everyone is having a good year, so far, and making lots of plans for the months ahead.  It’s a good time to think about what you want to accomplish this year and put new ideas in motion.

Travel is one thing that helps move me out of my “comfort zone” and around interactions with many different people.  It’s always a good exercise in patience and consideration of others. 

Decisions for a Libra can take longer to find balance, but I’m getting better and faster at making choices.  Even moment to moment activity choices have me wondering sometimes, but I have learned that making the effort to be thoughtful about it is very empowering overall. 

How do you start your day?  What do you eat to promote your own good health?  How much sleep and how much exercise makes you feel your best?  There are so many choices to make and the questions arise constantly about how to make the most of your time each day.

Because choices are constant, I am finding that I can actually live “by design” to the degree that I decide how to run my daily activities.  I am fascinated by the realm of “possibilities” that are open to each individual and how everyone decides to make certain choices for themselves. 

I am realizing that the life I live has more potential, if I really think about it and live “on purpose.”   The many “possibilities” will become actual experiences when I make the choice that is best for me at any given moment.  I can be more authentic and true to my nature, but also open to learning something new.  Keeping a “childlike” open mind is fresh, free and fun!  I am determined to stay in the frame of mind that welcomes “possibilities” and actually makes an honest choice based on living in the moment.  I want to “live out loud” in my own way and appreciate the life I am living “by design.”

“May what I do flow from me like a river, no forcing and no holding back, the way it is with children.”  ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

Blessings, Kaye

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As the new year begins like a wave coming towards the shore, it seems like anything is possible.  That concept opens up opportunities to start something new with confidence and conviction to put time and energy into something you’ve always wanted to do.  Everyone has their own thoughts about what inspires them and gives them joy, so now is the perfect time to consider taking real action to make something your own reality. 

In a recent article by Ken Gordon, I found a few words that seemed worth sharing.  Gordon writes that individually and as a society, we have trapped ourselves in our past.  Our preconceptions of the world and of our lives, our expectations, our certainties, and our grounded beliefs appearing so real keep us from beginning anew.  He goes on to ask what if we released the preconceptions, restrictions and limitations that we have embraced from our past as the only way to do something and continue to ask ourselves the question again and again “Why not?”  

According to Gordon’s article, he continues to write that it is time for humanity to rise above childhood and claim a new experience.  It is time for us to leave the comfort of old ideas and become the authority in our own lives.  We must realize that our future is not dependent upon the past, but dependent upon our own vision.

As the new year starts, each life is “beginning” again with new options for experience and growth.  What a great opportunity to open the mind and the door to discover some new adventures. 

I am always amazed by the stories of people working toward their goals and achieving results even greater than they imagined.  They look a leap of faith and marched to their own drummer.  It all must start with an inspiring idea and the willingness to jump into a new “BEGINNING.”

“And now we welcome the new year, full of things that have never been.”  ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

Blessings, Kaye

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I really wanted to write a new post on this special day.  They say a day like 12.12.12 won’t come around again for 89 years!   Can you imagine having your 12th birthday on this day?  Maybe invite a dozen friends to help celebrate!! 

It’s also a very special day to give back.  A huge concert is taking place on this night to help people still struggling from the devastation of Hurricane Sandy.  Legendary musicians and many well known celebraties are gathering together to raise as much money as possible.  Products are also available to support this cause, plus donations can be made online at

You can almost feel the community spirit of this day and the efforts to make a difference in other peoples’ lives.  If you have the opportunity to join in, this might be a wonderful way to help someone else feel “more blessed than stressed.”  I plan to make a contribution and share the love!

A single act of kindess throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees.  The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.  ~ George Eliot

Blessings, Kaye

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